After we come out, it's all down hill, and this is the big reason that I encourage the peeps to "never piss off the queer staff."
Watch this video.
A soldier. Trained for battle. Trained to help bad guys to meet their makers as necessary. He might have never been so scared in all his life as he was on this one call. Do you suppose he now has a new bar for what defines a stressful moment? I guarantee you he does.
After coming out to my own pre-teen children, I can assure you there's no risk left to take.